Monday, July 29, 2019

Cambios :(


Que mas mi familia y mis amigos!

Before I get started into the week I want to share a scripture with y'all. It is in 1 Nephi 12 verse 6. "But the Lord knoweth all things from the beginning; wherefore, he prepareth a way to accomplish all his works among the children of men; for behold, he hath all power unto the fulfilling of all his words. And thus it is. Amen" I know the Lord knows everything and that if we rely on him we can be tools to bless the lives of others.

Me and Paulo
Monday was a chill p-day. Played monopoly and I got destroyed. Que sad. Then later we went to a noche de hogar and had some awesome food and also played the game where we can draw on peoples faces. I will have pictures this time from that.

Face Painting Game


Last Pday
Tuesday not much happened except for on the way home Elder Dorsey was hungry so we stopped by and ate and afterward left them with a Book of Mormon to read and to hand out to whomever came in to eat and wanted it.

Wednesday we did some finding and found two people. One of them we had contacted on the street and he didn't have time to talk. There was another man watching us and when we passed by him he asked, “que hacen” and then we shared a little bit about what we do and why. He liked it and asked us to come back. Miracle!

Then Thursday we did divisions because Elder Dorsey had to take Elder Gutierrez to Quito. We had a lesson with Hugo and it went super well and the rest of the divisions was just lesson after lesson. One of them we were able to bring a member who is preparing to go on a mission but the lesson fell through so we taught him how to contact.

The next day we had full lessons again and we taught Jorge, the man we found on the street. We taught him about the gospel of Jesus Christ and he loved it. Said he would like to be baptized so we invited him to the baptismal service on Saturday and then invited him to say the closing prayer. After he said it, him and his mom were crying and said that they knew that this was good for them. It was awesome. I'm hoping we can put him on date.

Saturday we ate breakfast at mama Avilas'. Ate lunch at the ward mission leader's house and then went to the church to start filling the pila. Then we went to find Jorge to bring him but he ended up having to work later. So we hurried back to the Church and I baptized Willians and the other Elders had 3 others who got baptized. Afterward we took Willians to a place to eat and bought him a Pepito because he is from Venezuela.

Willians' Baptism





Sunday they were all confirmed and now we are just getting Hugo ready for his baptism. We ate arepas with the Elders Quorum President. And then we waited for the transfer doc. I am staying but the rest are going. We are sad. After that we went to a noche de hogar and then home to have Elder Dorsey pack.

Les quiero mucho,
Elder Tolman


Monday, July 22, 2019

Sorry, there are no pictures this week


Como estan!

I hope you all had an amazing week and were also able to share a Book of Mormon with someone this week. If not, I encourage you to keep trying and if you were able to, then that's awesome! I would love to hear about it.

This week we really struggled to find people and it was just a crazy week for us. Monday, we were at Quilatoa and I had pictures of that on last week's email. We also had a noche de hogar at Ruben's house with some investigators of the other elders who are on date. We played a game where someone wrote down a word in a certain subject and we had to try not to guess it. If we did, we got our face drawn on. For example, the theme is car brands and the person writes Honda. Who ever guesses Honda gets their face drawn on. I'll try to attach pictures if I can.

Tuesday we had interviews with President and all went well there, but afterward Elder Dorsey got a migraine so we stayed in the house the rest of the day.

Wednesday we had Zone Conference in Ambato and it was super good. We talked about obedience and repentance. President used a super cool object lesson where were wrote the word SIN on a white board in permanent marker. The only way to erase it was by drawing with a red marker over it and then erasing it. This is a symbol of our Savior's Atonement. The only way we can be made clean of our sins is through the atoning blood of Jesus Christ. I loved that example. Later we talked about a few questions people have about the atonement one of them being, Why do I still remember my sins after I have repented. For those who have truly repented the answer is that we remember our sins for two reasons. Sins bring pain and repentance brings joy. When we repent we don't keep on feeling our pain from our sins but we remember what we did wrong so that we never do it again and the second reason being so that we can remember who we rely on so we can feel joy. A great example of this is found in Alma 36, when Alma the younger is talking to his son Helaman about his experience with the atonement. Alma 36 verses 12 to 21 tell of his difference between pain before he repented and then his joy afterward. Overall it was a super good conference.

Thursday we all ate breakfast together and we ate a lot. Then we went to District Meeting and then went to lunch with Mama Avila. We were so full it wasn’t funny! After that Elder Dorsey and I went to talk to Willians and then afterward an appointment fell so we went to Dario and Patricia to talk to them. After, we went to try and get reference from soccer night at the church but nobody came except Willians so we showed him the font and told him how the baptismal service will be. Friday we had two lessons. One with Hugo and one with Willians. We also had Willians' interview and he passed. We were able to go finding and found 3 new people.

Saturday I ate two lunches because Elder Gutierrez had double dragon, which is where you poop and throw up at the same time, so I went with Elder Coloma to his lunch to eat right after we were done with our lunch. Then we went to a lesson and then exchanged again but this time I went with Elder Gutierrez to teach the last lesson to Erika and her family before their baptism. After that around 8 we had to walk super far to the house a member named Paulo for a noche de hogar with Willians. Super Chevere! We talked about how it isn't important what people say or do. We will not be offended if we have faith in the Lord and our own testimony that this is the Lord's restored church on the Earth. Sunday we did divisions again so Elder Coloma could go get investigators to bring to church because Elder Gutierrez still can't walk well on his ankle. We had a gringo family visit today so that was cool. One of them served their mission in Ogden Utah but that was in like 2002. One of the members asked Elder Dorsey if they were his family when they walked in haha bless her soul. Then later we had a noche de hogar and it was a party. Can't wait to see what next week brings!

Les quiero mucho!
Elder Tolman

Friday, July 12, 2019

Mama Avila

Mama Avila loves taking care of the missionaries. She is so sweet to feed them and send us pictures. This is what she sent us on Facebook Messenger:
" Recuerdos hermosos que compartimos dia a dia con los misioneros mis angeles guardianes." Which means "Beautiful memories that we share day by day with the missionaries, my guardian angels" So grateful for her and her willingness to serve!









Monday, July 8, 2019

Double the Fun!


Hola a todos,

I am going to try to recap last week a little better than before and then I will get into this week.

Last week we went to a lesson with our Elders Quorum President, President Romero.
We talked about faith and he encouraged them to set a date to get married and they agreed to.

On Wednesday we went to Mama Avilas referral named Betty. She has been through some hard times and wants peace in her life so we shared a bit of the Plan of Salvation. She seems super solid. Then went on exchanges with the Zone Leaders so one of them could interview Nancy and Shirley for their baptism.

While in Ambato with Elder Cloward, I met two of their recent converts. One was an old man who forgot a lot of the things he had been taught so we went over the Restoration again. The other was a family who said that the people in our church don't know how to preach the word of God and lack faith and ganas, and on and on. It was a little frustrating trying to teach them our church is the way it is. They wanted a preacher shouting at them but we explained the spirit doesn't work that way. It is a quiet still, small voice, and that is the voice we should be listening for, not just the words of the person speaking. They still didn't like that answer so we told them to read the Book of Mormon to gain a stronger testimony so I hope they can! After that lesson we went to one of their investigators who Elder Cloward was planning on dropping. We got in the house and shared a scripture. After wards I felt like I should challenge them to get married and be baptized and set a date. They accepted and I was so happy! The spirit was so strong.

On Thursday we had district meeting and that is where our exchanges ended. When we got back to Latacunga we stopped by Nancy and Shirley to see who they wanted to baptize and make sure they were ready. Shirley picked Elder Dorsey to baptize her and Nancy changed her mind to have Reuben (a member that came with us to lessons instead of me). She had picked me the last time we went over.

Friday we took Mama Avila to a lesson with Betty and she invited her to come to church. We couldn't really have a lesson with her because her boss was there. That night we had a Father's Day party and the ward asked us to do some sort of skit so ours was making fun of gringo and latino companionships. Of course me and Elder Dorsey were the gringos and had to act stupid. The ward loved it but we are still getting made fun of to this day haha.

Saturday started off good with an amazing dinner with Mama Avila. Super rico! Then went to another town called Salcedo to teach a lesson. She gave us choclo that later we gave to Mama Avila and picked up Elder Dorsey's suit she was fixing for him. We went home and got dressed for the baptism and started filling the font at 6 and finished at 7:30. Everything was ready and we were just waiting for Shirley and Nancy to show up. Long story short, only Shirley showed up so she was baptized and then confirmed on Sunday.

Sunday found a daughter and her mom who seemed super cool so can't wait to go teach them. Also a random past investigator showed up to church so we are going to try to teach her. Also had a noche de hogar with Paulo and his wife which was super fun. They made good food.

Monday, pday, we played a lot of soccer so I was so sore this week.

This past week, Tuesday we contacted some people while at Mama Avilas which was awesome. Then this guy on the street stopped us as we were walking to a cita and asked what we do. We told him we would come back later and teach him more. When we came back he was super receptive and he read the book of Mormon right there in front of us. He could be a real solid investigator. Then we went to our cita with Betty and while we were talking we found out she had talked to her friend from her church who told her we were false and had false prophets and our book was false and stuff like that. We told her that no man, us or her friend, can tell her the truth and it stand as truth for her. The only real way to know is to ask God so we asked her to read the Book of Mormon and pray and ask God if it is correct and if this is His church. She said she felt really confused and unsure about it all but we really hope she does it.

Afterward we met up with Ruben and went with him to visit Nancy. She still doesn't have her kids and so she feels like she can't be happy and not have them so she doesn't want to be baptized until she gets them. Super stressful day full of up and downs. I've come to realize that I really do love these people and when things come in their way from progressing it makes we really sad for them. Satan is real and working very hard against us, but because we are on the Lord's side we will win!

Wednesday we taught William again. The guy we ran into on Tuesday morning. He had like 10 questions for us just from reading the intro to the Book of Mormon. We were able to answer all of them and he said he would continue reading. We taught him the Restoration and he was super receptive. After that we went to lunch with Obispo, but he lives in Belesario which is like 20 minutes away in bus. After lunch we did some studies and bought Bonais which is frozen yogurt and then headed to a cita with Dario and Patricia to teach them about faith and baptism. Then after went to English class. On our way home Mama Avila bought us papi pollo, super rico!

Thursday we had District meeting and celebrated the fourth of July. We had lunch with Mama Avila and then took the long bus ride to Quito where we got on another bus to take us further into central Quito where we took another bus. We went to Chilis with the secretaries and while we were there some borrachas from the states came and talked to us. Two were behind me so I didn't see them but from what the other elders say, they were all staring at me so that whole night they were calling me the lady slayer and stuff like that.
Celebrating the 4th



The next morning was verifications or trainer follow up. We had french toast in the morning and Papa Johns pizza for lunch. Then afterward we took the long travel back home. We got back around 6 and began to contact. These last two days kind of dragged because of our travels but we managed to pickup one person and contact a few others along the way.

Saturday we had a few lessons and they went ok. One fell through and it just wasn't the most successful day. Sunday William came to church but no one else showed up. Later in the day we had noche de hogar in Mama Avilas casa and it was pretty good.

Pday Adventures - Hiking Cotopaxi Volcano













Les quiero mucho, cuĂ­dense!

Elder Tolman

Tuesday, July 2, 2019

Mama Avila

Mama Avila is a member in Bryce's area and she has been taking great care of Bryce!  She reached out to us today and sent us these pictures of Bryce and his companion.  She loves cooking for them and Bryce loves her cooking!









Monday, July 1, 2019

1st Baptism


Hola Mis amigos y familias,

This week has been awesome, but I hate to say this, I do not have a lot of time because I want to talk to my family so I will make this quick.


We had a hard time finding this week but got a referral from Mama Avila and have been teaching her. We are hoping to baptize her soon. We had 3 baptisms but 2 fell through so only baptized one named Shirley but she was so excited, and it made me so happy. That was a crazy day trying to get everything ready. We also had to do divisiones for her interview, so I went to Ambato for a day and taught some really cool people. We have two people on date to be married so they can be baptized, and we found some more people towards the end of the week. All in all, super good but super sad I don’t have a lot of time.

Our apartment, we live on the main floor


Views of Latacunga





Views of Cotopaxi Volcano


City of Ambato

Hitchin a ride



Member family announcing their pregnancy to family and friends!
Love you all and keep up the good work!

Also let me know if there is anyone else who needs to be added, I know I am missing some.

les quiero mucho,
Elder Tolman